Giving sharp or pointed gifts to newlyweds is considered bad luck, as these objects symbolize conflict and division.

Why Sharp Objects Are Bad Wedding Gifts

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In various cultures, gifting knives, scissors, or other sharp objects to a bride and groom is avoided because of their symbolic association with cutting or separation. The fear is that such gifts could metaphorically ‘cut’ the relationship, causing arguments, misunderstandings, or even divorce. If a sharp item must be gifted, some cultures suggest giving a coin along with it so that the item is seen as ‘purchased’ by the couple rather than gifted—neutralizing the negative symbolism. This practice still persists in many Eastern and Western wedding customs. Items commonly avoided include chef’s knives, scissors, letter openers, and even needles in some regions. The superstition is typically honored during wedding showers, engagement celebrations, and the wedding gift exchange.

Historical Context

The belief appears to have roots in Medieval European traditions, where symbolic acts were thought to carry real-world consequences. The knife, associated with bloodshed and aggression, became a negative omen if associated with moments meant to foster unity—such as weddings. In Nordic traditions, for example, gifting a blade was linked to betrayal or duel challenges. Later, similar beliefs were adopted in various Asian cultures, including Chinese and Filipino wedding customs, where gifting knives was also discouraged. The consistent theme across cultures is that sharp objects represent stress or separation and therefore should be avoided in rituals that celebrate union.

Modern Relevance

Although modern gift registries and evolving norms have diluted many wedding taboos, the avoidance of sharp items is still followed in many families and cultures. In parts of South Asia, the superstition continues to guide gifting traditions, especially among older generations. In the U.S., some couples request to avoid knives on registries or include a symbolic penny exchange with gifted cutlery. Online forums and wedding blogs still discuss this tradition, and it occasionally resurfaces in pop culture or etiquette columns. It remains a reminder of the symbolic weight objects can carry—even in secular or modern contexts.

Sources

Hennig, Christine. Wedding Traditions from Around the World. Interact Publications, 2012.

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